Ooooh, . . . Love is in the air!!!!

And why not? It’s Valentine’s Day!

Everyone seems so busy. 

Male.

Female.

Homosexual.

Bisexual.

Young.

Old.

Single.

Taken.

Married.

Divorced.

Widowed.

It’s complicated.

Name it.

And me????

I may be under any of those categories that I’ve enumerated but, . . .

I wonder why am not  even afflicted by this chronic  ‘mode of being’.

Not the Valentine’s Day itself  but the reason why it is being celebrated and all other totally unsound activities or should I say ‘ceremonies’ and/or ‘traditions’ that goes with it.

First and foremost is the notion that if you don’t have any date this Valentine’s it’s either you are a born-loser or just got s0ooo unlucky.

WeLL, am n0t! AbsoLutely n0t!

 Why would I?

Am not being defensive, though, but come to think of it. If one doesn’t  have anyone to go out with this Valentine’s Day, this also means that he/she doesn’t have to go through a series of deadly preparation just to look  good prior to his/her date.

Further, in today’s generation Valentine’s Day is becoming  a commercial holiday. It is no longer about love and relationships; it is about selling flowers, candy, and and all other stuffs that one can associate with being inlove. Think of all the money one is saving.

And lastly, do not let a couple-driven culture define your choice of being single as something wrong. There is definitely nothing wrong with being single, but the attitude of a single person can absolutely make him/her feel that there is. Do not let your status define yourself. Your status can never entirely speak of what you are as a person.

See?

Who says being single, dateless and available on Valentine’s Day is miserable, . .

i don’t believe so.